They say that South Africa is the
land of contrast and a trip to Coffee Bay gave us another glimpse of the rich
diversity that blankets this nation. A landscape of rolling hills, dotted with
small circular straw roofed huts, Coffee Bay is isolated from the outside world
and reminds me of something which would feature in the National Geographic.
A guided tour of around the village
allowed us to learn about traditional medicines and the locals beliefs about
their ancestors. We visited the sacred pools where locals would pour homemade
beer as an offering to their ancestors. After we had practiced some traditional
mud face painting we visited a family home for a homemade traditional meal prepared
by the mamas. While inside, women served the food. Men and women sat at
different sides of the room, with the man of the house sitting nearest the
door. Needless to say, Lynsey and Shannon were less than impressed to have to
hand Ryan and I our food with the phrase ‘I hope you choke on it’ being used! I
couldn’t believe it when we learned that a man had to buy his wife. This is
done by paying the lady’s parents the value of 7 cows, along with the lady’s
consent. Furthermore a man can have as many wives as he pleases provided he is
able to provide for them all.
The Xhosa culture is very different
to the culture of Northern Ireland. Nevertheless, I felt very welcome here and
the locals were very friendly. Locals recognise that tourism is crucial to
their community which is economically isolated and so the feeling towards
travellers is very positive. I think experiencing different cultures and
comparing them to our own is important in developing understanding,
appreciation and respect for difference. Our culture helps shape who we are,
how others see us and how we interact with others. Experiencing new and
contrasting cultures helps challenge how we develop as individuals. I have
enjoyed my time in Coffee Bay very much, it has been awesome!
Glenn

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